Tuesday, November 27, 2018

Who the Hell Are We Anyway

I was talking to one of our cousins today about family...seems that is all I ever talk about...family with family.  There are worse fates I suppose. Her question to me was what do we say when we are asked who we are ethnically?

Our part of the Mediterranean, actually the Tyrrhenian sea in our case, was a crossroads for every invading culture in the old world.  We have an amazingly diverse genetic pool and it is getting worse as we expand out into the world.  I am not certain that there is a single answer for this question.

  Many of our people have Sicilian roots.. Sicily is remarkably similar to the islands in its diversity and is not a real genetically related group. You will find a genetically different person every fifty feet in Sicily.  If you wanted to say what our ethnicity is, it would include Greek, Sicels, Latins, Arabs, Jews, Vikings, French, Spanish, Phoenecian and you name it.

However, if you needed to choose a name for our islands' sources, you might look at the depopulation of the islands in the 1500s. Red-beard the Turkish pirate laid siege to Lipari and most of the people of the islands were sold into slavery.  A few returned after being ransomed.  These were the old mixed early population. Many of the rest of the people were brought to the islands from Calabria, which is visible from the islands.  Obviously this was close enough to have old connections with the islands' population anyway. (This is about the time the Cafarellas arrived.  Whether we are Calabrian or from farther north...Sorry...don't know yet. But there were Cafarellas in and around Caserta north of Naples at this time, and some of the related names like Colonna suggest more northern connections.) This was not the first depopulation either.  The earliest populations of the islands may not even exist anymore.

The Calabrians are also a mix, but somewhat less diverse, more Latin who were native to the peninsula, Greek  in the form of the descendants of early colonists from mainland Greece and  Spanish who came along with the Spanish rulers based in Naples.

There were a couple more waves of immigrants to the islands over the next centuries, but by far, you could say we are predominantly ethnically or culturally Calabrians, while we linguistically used a more Sicilian dialect as we were governed from Messina and traded heavily with mainland Sicily for a very long time.  Dance, music and other cultural characteristics are closely related to Sicily, but again, economic and political ties can have a powerful influence and Calabrian culture is somewhat similar in some things.

In my immediate family, we have:

 Vasquez..Spanish, possibly Jews run out of Spain after the Christian re-conquest or possibly diplomats or settlers from Spain.

 Lazzaro..Jewish. I have DNA results that say both Ashkenazi and Sepharic Jews in the family.

 Cafarella..Arabic mixed with Italian with contacts in central and northern central Italy. Possibly Rome, Lazio and Campagna.  Malfa(My Grandparents' village) is remarkably similar to Amalfi.(The city state south of Naples)

 Cincotta.. Probably very old Greek and Italian and some even say they were Spanish.  They also note the fact that CINQUE or CINCO and OTTO or 58 makes up the name.

Whatever we are, it is not simple. 

You may say Sicilian because the islands are governed from there...but each individual would have to examine his own roots to really confirm that designation. 

I think that Calabrian (Calabrese) is a better description of most of us and I like that it sounds more exotic. 

Some of us in America just say we are Sicilian because of the glamour associated with the designation...perhaps we like that people believe we are all related to Mafia and the Godfather series and can wipe you out with a phone call...I think it is a testosterone thing!

The funny thing is that Sicilians can only say that they are Sicilian by geographic designation, just as we in the USA can only say that we are American by Geographic luck.
Australians too I guess.

I have mentioned Jewish ancestry a couple of times, so this might be a good place to discuss this.

Jewishness is a hotly debated designation.  You can be called Jewish without a single middle eastern gene but have a sort of religious designation.  There are also a number of theories as to where Jews came from.  Needless to say, the 19th and 20th century origins of some of these theories may be well grounded in the Nazi movements and motivations. Those are debates that will have to continue till everyone is satisfied as to the history of the Jewish people and is not my problem.

 As to who we are, well, I have had some indication that I have both Ashkenazi and Sephardic Jewish roots.
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New ideas seem to indicate that these two groups may have come from the same European origin.  Rome was one of the largest populations of Jews in the dark and Middle ages.  As the Christians were not allowed to engage in money matters, such as loaning of money at interest, European kings invited the Jews of Rome to form communities in the rest of Europe.  Many Jews of central Europe eventually ended up concentrated in Germany and the east.  There, they formed their own somewhat different culture and language from the western Jewish populations.  These Eastern Ashkenazi Jews spoke Yiddish and had unique pronunciation of Hebrew and variations in customs of their own.

The Jews who stayed in the west, particularly in Spain had their own cultural group which perpetuated through various governing rules in the country in a very friendly manner, till the inquisition of the Christian rulers finally drove them out. These were the Sephardic Jews.

Now the Ashkenazi in many but not all cases may not even qualify as Jews as all.  It seems that genetics tells us that many of the early Jews who settled in the central and eastern areas married local pagans or Christians and whether they converted or not, do not actually qualify in the minds of Rabbis in Israel as eligible to claim return to Israel...that is if they actually find out. 

Do not quote me, as I am relying on fairly new information, and this is still up for debate.  Meanwhile, If you are interested, you should explore this topic for yourselves.  It is a very interesting topic, and by contacting me directly, you may help me clarify and correct all this in time.
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Jennie Cincotta Collins Obituary

Jennie M. (Cincotta) Collins
                                                                                   
 

COLLINS, Jennie M. (Cincotta) Of North Reading, formerly of Everett, March 7, 2009, age 79. Beloved wife of 49 years to John P. Collins, Sr. Loving father of Jacqueline M. Collins and her companion Bob King of Reading; John P., Jr. of North Reading; Joseph P. and his wife Dianne of Georgetown; Elizabeth M. Donaldson and her husband Jeffrey and Maryann Murray and her husband Michael, all of North Reading. Sister of Bernie Correlle and his wife Betty of Kissimmee, FL; Anerio Cincotta and his wife Marilyn of Stoneham and Richard Correlle of Haverhill. Sister of the late Paul, Anthony, Lucian and Rose Correlle and Mary Grecco. Grandmother of Jennifer, Jacob and Katelyn Donaldson, James King, Joseph, David and Ana Collins, Maxwell, Mason and Marshall Murray. Also survived by many nieces and nephews. Funeral from the Croswell Funeral Home, 19 Bow St., NORTH READING on Thursday, March 12, at 9 AM, followed by a 10:30 AM Funeral Mass at St. Theresa's Church, 63 Winter St. (Rt.62), North Reading. Calling hours will be on Wednesday from 4 to 8 PM. Burial will be in Forest Glen Cemetery, Reading.

Grave Finder, and Jennie Cincotta Collins

I just noticed this site in a random search.  It is my cousin Jennie Cincotta Collins.  I just thought it might be a good tool for someone doing searches.

https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/39054354/jennie-m.-collins

Sunday, November 18, 2018

My own DNA

I should have posted information on my DNA tests earlier.  I guess that I have found so much stuff there and I am not terribly tech savvy.  I do not know how or what I want to upload.  So, I just sent the raw data to a distant cousin in Australia so they can upload it to another genealogy site.  I guess his response to me is what people really want to see, so I will just post that for the moment.  So here it is. from my cousin's husband Patrick van der Hoeven:

Your ethnicity report came up on the mobile phone app this afternoon.  Interestingly it says still not ready on the computer website.  Also it may be a few more days before they get the matches listed.
 
However on the mobile app, you are 57.5% Italian, 12.9% Iberian and 24.9% Irish/Scottish/Welsh. Finally, you are 4.7% Jewish.
 
No real surprises there. 
 
I was expecting a larger percentage of  British Isles as no one ever said that my grandfather Mitchell had any Italian in him...but who knows as there is no info on him prior to 1873.

England, Wales & Northwestern Europe35%

Italy27%
Sicily
France18%

Ireland & Scotland15%

Germanic Europe5%

Here is the estimate of ethnicity from Ancestry DNA

Thursday, November 15, 2018

Obituary Anerio Cincotta

Anerio Frederick Cincotta


February 21, 1933 - November 09, 2018
North Andover and formerly of Malden and Melrose - Anerio "Fred" Cincotta, 85, a longtime resident of North Andover and previously from Malden and Melrose, passed away peacefully surrounded by his loved ones on Friday, November 09, 2018.

Born in Revere, to the late Jacob and Rose (Cafarella) Cincotta, Fred was raised and educated in Malden, Massachusetts. He was a graduate of Malden High School and Bentley University. As a member of the United States Air Force he proudly served his country and was awarded the National Defense Service Medal.
He retired from Raytheon, Andover, and previously owned and operated Mr. Anerio's Hair Salon in Malden. He enjoyed photography, woodcarving, playing the accordion, poetry and story writing, and spending time over the years with his many beloved dogs.

Fred was predeceased by his loving wife, Margaret (Eagan) Cincotta to whom he was married for 35 years.

He is survived by his devoted wife, Florence (Smith) Cincotta; his two loving daughters, Margaret Cincotta and spouse Laura of Athol and Catherine Cincotta of Billerica; stepdaughters, Laura Sullivan (Robert), Lisa Robinson (Frank), Linda McInnis (James); and predeceased by step-son Lawrence J. Smith. Anerio cherished the time spent with his grandchildren, Alex, Joel, Jillian and husband Austin, Francis, Alexandria, Courtney, James, Nicholas, Kaitlyn, and Linda.

He also leaves his loving sister Jennie DeFina of Waltham with whom he shared a very special bond and friendship; and many nieces, nephews, family, and friends.

The family would like to express their deepest gratitude to the staff at Baldwinville Nursing Center for the kindness and care extended to Anerio and the family.

Tuesday, November 13, 2018

Jewish? So, that is why people think I am Jewish!

Just a note about the Vasquez family. 
I have known for years about the Vasquez connections in our family.  Also, about the branch that included Onofrio Vasquez and Jennie Cincotta Vasquez.  But I have not been able to find the connection between the two families.  This was one of my prime concerns when I took the family tree to Malfa.  I met Vasquez cousins there, but they seemed unable to make a connection either.  If anyone has a clue about how they are connected or about other Vasquez cousins I would certainly appreciate hearing about it.
On another note, Patrick van der Hoeven has been telling me that local groups in Australia have informed him that the Vasquez family has Sephardic Jewish roots.  Seems logical to me.  During the repopulation of the islands, many Spanish came to the islands along with the Spanish rulers. Whether the Vasquez family is simply a part of a general Spanish influx or were Jews escaping persecution, I cannot be sure.  If someday we were to find records of their arrival, that may shed some light.
That being said, there are Jewish connections in the family even if we do not include the Vasquez family.  Lazzaro is another name in the early family that has Jewish roots.
The Jews in Spain were allowed to exist happily alongside the rest of the population for many years after most of Spain was taken by the Muslim Moors.  When the Christians started taking back the country, most were allowed to stay.  Then as the Christians became the masters of the whole peninsula, Jews were allowed to stay only if they converted to Christianity.  Most did this freely. while secretly remaining Jewish.  When Ferdinand and Isabella finally took Granada at about the same time as Columbus arrived in America...the last Moorish holdout, the Jews were expelled completely and those who had converted and secretly remained Jewish would be burned by the inquisition if they did not prove total conversion.  Finally almost all were expelled, converted or not.
I like to think that the islanders were and are a pretty liberal lot, and accepted their Jewish immigrants pretty readily.  In fact they were probably more offended by the Spanish than the Jews.
This is of course very much up in the air.  No need to immediately adopt the beautiful Jewish traditions immediately.  All the families involved in our tree have been Catholic for a long time.  There are interesting devotions in our family.  There are particular devotions to Santa Anna, San Biagio, San Bartolomeo, Santa Marina and the more universal devotion to Santa Maria.
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Jake Cincotta's Passport Application

 
When the Cincotta family of my grandmother moved to this country, most of their children had been born.  Soon enough, they had a child in Malden ma. that they named Jacob.  They decided to return to Malfa with Jacob and the rest of the family stayed here.  Jake was raised on the island and when he decided to return here, this was his passport application.
Thanks Patrick van der Hoeven for this image.
 
Click to enlarge the image.
 
 
 

Sunday, November 11, 2018

My cousin is once removed!

So many asked me to explain how the cousin relationship works.  well here it is as best I can explain it.  I hope this helps you all.
I warn you that typing these and having them show up on the page correctly without breaking up and appearing all over the page is tough, so this may be a little strange looking.  I will hand write and photograph them later and replace this post.
 
 
 
Parents.
 
 
sibling                               sibling
 
 
 
    first cousin                              first cousin 
 
 
 
      second cousin                                     second cousin 
 
 
 
    third cousin                                        third cousin
 
 
etc.

Patrick van der Hoeven in Australia shared this note with me:
I saw your post about the first, second, and other cousins.  Here is another way to look at it.  Look at the number of g's in your shared ancestor at the same level. Count them. That is the level of cousin that you are.  eg grandfather = first cousin; great grandfather = second cousin; great great great great grandmother = 5th cousin.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Parents
 
 
 
 
sibling                                 sibling
 
 
 
first cousin                              first cousin
 
 
 first cousin 1                                                   
                                                                                                         
 
 
 
first cousin 2                                                 
                                                                                                           
 
                                               
 
first cousin 3                                              
                                                                                                            
 
 
 
etc.

1 above is once removed
2 above is twice removed
3 above is thrice removed
 
 
 
 
 
parents
 
 
 
sibling                                          sibling
 
 
 
 
First cousin                                            first cousin
 
 
 
second cousin                                        second cousin
 
 
 
 
                                                       second cousin once removed*
 
 
 
 
 
* also first cousin twice removed from the cousin above left
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
        

Additional Generations

Thank you Patrick Van der Hoeven for a few more details.  Here are a couple of updates, a few  members that predate Giovanna Vasquez and Gaetano Cafarella.

Giovanna's parents are:  Giuseppe Vasquez 1781- 1845 and Rosa Giuttari 1790 - 1845

Gaetano Cafarella's Parents were: Antonino Cafarella 1775 -  and Maria Giuseppa Randazzo 1780 -





Moving down a generation, we find Rosa Cusolito  Cafarella who was married to Giuseppe Cafarella , son of Giovanna Vasquez  and Gaetano Cafarella.  

Her father was Bartolo Cusolito . 1808-1890

Her mother was Giuseppa Cammarda .  Giuseppa's father was Bartolo Cammarda.